Life in our twenties is hard enough as it is. As if many of us don’t have enough problems, some of us men can’t help but bringing drama into the romantic aspect of our lives as well. This drama often derives from chasing down “bad girls” that we know aren’t exactly the types of women we should be chasing.
But why exactly are we so insistent in pursuing females that we know are wrong for us? Simple. Despite the problematic nature of these women, there are also many appealing sides to a bad girl that we just can’t seem to resist no matter how hard we try. Let’s take a look at a few reasons why this is the case.
1. The thrill of the chase.
If you tell me I can’t have something, guess what I am going to want? Exactly what you just told me I couldn’t have! It is human nature. Well bad girls give off the vibe that they are emotionally unobtainable. This results in only one thought for a man; I must have her.
2. The break from reality.
Most bad girls tend to be free spirits in nature. They don’t bow down to how others expect them to act. They are their own person, in charge of their own destinies, and don’t really care what others think of them. Hanging out with a bad girl allows us to adapt to their lifestyle by association, and partake in that temporary break from reality.
3. The desire to heal.
They say that women have the mothering instincts, but when it comes to bad girls, the desire to fix someone else kicks in as well. Men who chase bad girls want to be the guy who walks into their life and changes them for the better, helping them to escape to a happily ever after life. The truth of the matter is, most people don’t change, and the only escape you will want when all is said and done is for yourself.
4. The need for excitement.
When it comes down to it, life can get boring after a while. Especially in relationships. Being with someone who is unpredictable and slightly dangerous ensures that we will never find ourselves becoming bored in a monogamous relationship, even if we do find ourselves dealing with unnecessary drama.
5. The promise of sexuality.
Most bad girls will give off the vibe that they have no fear behind close doors. It’s something about the look and the attitude that they carry. When we see these types of women, we instantly become excited about the physical potential that may come with it.